Abstract

This paper describes and explores a developmental transition called "late mid-life astonishment." This transition of passage most typically begins between the ages of 50 and 60, is marked by a sudden awareness of the acceleration and stigmatization of aging, and characterized by feelings of amazement and despair at the multiple losses and changes brought about or occuring simultaneously with increase of age. This transition then is a developmental crisis: one which can initiate a disruption of one's sense of self or identity and result in feelings of heightened vulnerability, shame, and severe loss of self-esteem. The paper concludes with implications for a psycotherapy which is validating of experience, attuned to the themes and tasks of late mid-life, and facilitating of the emergence of the personal resources necessary to confront and reconcile the reality of aging and discover its new and possible rewards.